Relationship Tip: Do Your Due Diligence Before You Commit.

Today’s blog is an excerpt from my soon to be released book Further, Faster, Together!  Hope you enjoy. Luke 14: 28-30  For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not sit down first and count the cost, whether he has enough to finish it— 29 lest, after he has laid the foundation, and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock …

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Relationship Tip: Support Your Children

Scriptures: Psalms 127:3 Behold, children are a gift of the Lord, the fruit of the womb is a reward. Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it. A few days after Christmas in 2014, my son David came into my office and informed me that he had purchased a …

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Relationship Tip: God’s Remedy for Broken Trust

Text: For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: 15 but if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. Matt 6:14-15 To be in relationship, is to risk being hurt. Recently, I inquired for  topics of discussion for my blog and the only response and recommendation I received was Broken Trust. …

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I Need Your Support

I really need your support! Click the following link to check out my new video to see how you can support the Further, Faster, Together Mission Project. Thanks, Dr. Phelps

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Relationship Tip: Never Insult Your Partner’s Intelligence

“He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.” Proverbs 28:13 A few years ago, I saw a 60 Minutes episode on “At What Age Do You Learn to Lie?”  The researchers put a group of toddlers in a room with hidden cameras and put a plate of cookies and toys in …

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Relationship Tip: Be Considerate

Scripture: Luke 6:31 Do to others as you would have them do to you. Thought:  Jesus instructed his disciples  to treat people how you want to be treated.  Put another way.  Do for other people everything you want them to do for you.   Unfortunately, we live in a very narcissistic and inconsiderate society. But when it comes to relationships consideration and …

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Relationship Tip: They Know All About YOU and Still Love You

   Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Proverbs 27:17 “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his …

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Relationship Tip: Compatibility Counts!

  Contrary to popular belief, sensitive or emotional and moody people, don’t need to be with other sensitive people because that can be emotionally draining and even volatile. Rather sensitive people should connect with those who are sensitive to their sensitivity. Their understanding and attentiveness will result in balance and peace. Seek mutual attraction, interests, engagement and investment in relationships. …

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Relationship Tip – Communication is Fundamental

Relationship Tip: The greatest investment or improvement that a couple can make to their relationship is to improve their communication skills. Communication and understanding are critical to a healthy relationship. Miscommunication or non-communication and misunderstanding are usually major factors or culprits in relational confusion, chaos and breakups. Therefore, improve your communication skills and improve your relationship. Bonus Relationship Tip: Listen…… …

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Relationship Tips – Let’s Be Friends

RELATIONSHIP TIP #4: “Before you become anything else, become friends!” Contrary to popular belief, the first step in a relationship is not lovers, but friends. Friendship is the ideal place to start any relationship. Unfortunately, the starting point for many is lust rather than friendship. Recently I heard a true story of a successful young woman who went to a …

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