Relationship Tip: Compatibility Counts!

  Contrary to popular belief, sensitive or emotional and moody people, don’t need to be with other sensitive people because that can be emotionally draining and even volatile. Rather sensitive people should connect with those who are sensitive to their sensitivity. Their understanding and attentiveness will result in balance and peace. Seek mutual attraction, interests, engagement and investment in relationships. …

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Relationship Tip – Communication is Fundamental

Relationship Tip: The greatest investment or improvement that a couple can make to their relationship is to improve their communication skills. Communication and understanding are critical to a healthy relationship. Miscommunication or non-communication and misunderstanding are usually major factors or culprits in relational confusion, chaos and breakups. Therefore, improve your communication skills and improve your relationship. Bonus Relationship Tip: Listen…… …

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Relationship Tips – Let’s Be Friends

RELATIONSHIP TIP #4: “Before you become anything else, become friends!” Contrary to popular belief, the first step in a relationship is not lovers, but friends. Friendship is the ideal place to start any relationship. Unfortunately, the starting point for many is lust rather than friendship. Recently I heard a true story of a successful young woman who went to a …

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Relationship Tip – Check Yourself!

“The starting point of any relationship is YOU. If YOU are messed up and out of control, you are already operating in a relational deficit!” The substratum or foundation of all your relationships is YOU. For years when I had problems in my relationship with others, I would pray for them. I would ask God to fix them, I mean …

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Relationship Tip – Money Matters

  “In relationships MONEY Matters.” Money is important because it informs our self-worth (self-esteem) and net worth. I learned in my high school consumer education class that money is important because it determines what we can and cannot do. Money gives you freedom and choices. Let’s consider Joe and Tammy’s story. Tammy and Joe grew up together and eventually started …

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Relationship Tip – Parents Be Parents

Relationship Tip: Parents be parents. Do not give in to the pressure of being friends with your children. Establish healthy boundaries. Never give your children permission to disrespect you or your position. Your role is to give guidance , direction ,leadership ,discipline ,love and support , whether they want or appreciate it or not. Children of all ages please listen …

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Happy New Year

HAPPY NEW YEAR!   Thanking you for your  prayers, love and support of me and my ministry in 2015. Wishing you and your family a very blessed and prosperous New Year in 2016. Dr. Phelps #FurtherFasterTogether www.kennethdphelps.com

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Steps to a New You in 2016

New Years Eve Message. Isaiah 43:19 (KJV) Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert. 2 Corinthians 5:17 (KJV) Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away ; behold , all …

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Excerpt from Further, Faster, Together

Relationship Tip: “Lack of commitment is another sign of immaturity. Quit committing to those that cannot, nor ever will, commit to you. If there is no future or commitment, then you may be wasting your time.” My definition of immaturity is not mature; not full grown or ready. The following story is a great example of what could happen if …

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